Thank you so much for always having your amazing art to balance the tragedies being exposed.
I know you are fully immersed in the cases you are directly involved with, yet please, all supporters, be aware especially of what is happening in Colorado with legislation that will protect the groomers and not the biological parents, in cases of gender situations. Loving Christian parents who want to support their child's situation without medications, surgeries, etc are facing criminal prosecution and having their child taken from them...this legislation can set a precedent for other states and is clearly an attack on families of faith. Praying praying praying and we all need to take action in every possible way that we can!
working for child support, never knew how BAD it could be. Cases screwed up due to 'following the system' (mistakes are made daily causing distress, lack of payments, too much payment not enough payment system screws you all the way on both sides etc etc). But the very FIRST thing I tell non custodial is: GET A CUSTODY ORDER with VISITATION RIGHTS from the state right now! Before they move away and do the whole kidnap etc. Without that order you have NO LEGAL LEGS. Surprising how many non custodial come in and they volunteer to go on support because "I want to get him/her to let me see my kids!" No court order? No dice. And yet the state will happily create an admin (not judicial) order that is almost impossible to avoid, with NO mention of the fact that unless you go to the courts you can't be sure of your rights to see your kids. And even then, you'll have file and fight it out in COURT.... yet our glorious state insists that you MUST have a child support case open against the other parent should you want to have benes from the state. Abuse waiting to happen.
Thank you so much for always having your amazing art to balance the tragedies being exposed.
I know you are fully immersed in the cases you are directly involved with, yet please, all supporters, be aware especially of what is happening in Colorado with legislation that will protect the groomers and not the biological parents, in cases of gender situations. Loving Christian parents who want to support their child's situation without medications, surgeries, etc are facing criminal prosecution and having their child taken from them...this legislation can set a precedent for other states and is clearly an attack on families of faith. Praying praying praying and we all need to take action in every possible way that we can!
working for child support, never knew how BAD it could be. Cases screwed up due to 'following the system' (mistakes are made daily causing distress, lack of payments, too much payment not enough payment system screws you all the way on both sides etc etc). But the very FIRST thing I tell non custodial is: GET A CUSTODY ORDER with VISITATION RIGHTS from the state right now! Before they move away and do the whole kidnap etc. Without that order you have NO LEGAL LEGS. Surprising how many non custodial come in and they volunteer to go on support because "I want to get him/her to let me see my kids!" No court order? No dice. And yet the state will happily create an admin (not judicial) order that is almost impossible to avoid, with NO mention of the fact that unless you go to the courts you can't be sure of your rights to see your kids. And even then, you'll have file and fight it out in COURT.... yet our glorious state insists that you MUST have a child support case open against the other parent should you want to have benes from the state. Abuse waiting to happen.